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Apr
16
Why Do Men Cheat?
Posted by 4T at 13:56 | Filed In Family After 40, Life After 40, Social After 40 | 1 Comment
Recently, I met to friends who have become divorced within the past two years. One had found out that her husband had been cheating on her for 10 years, with the same women. The other friend’s husband left her for a younger women. Both women are in their early 50’s, successful, beautiful, and devastated. Their families were shattered and everyone is in therapy, trying to figure out what went wrong.
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Apr
2
Relationships
Posted by 4T at 09:24 | Filed In Family After 40, Life After 40, Social After 40 | Add a Comment
A few months ago I met my cousin in a food store and while chatting she hit me with the news that she was separating from her husband. She had been married over 20 years and is in her mid forties. I was shocked, surprised, and somewhat sad. She explained to me that she had not been happy for a long time and felt it was time to do something about it. While applauding her strength and determination I was still anxious for her.
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Mar
31
Sandwich Generation
Posted by 4T at 08:41 | Filed In Family After 40, Life After 40, Social After 40, Work After 40 | 1 Comment
Let’s face it. Whether it is taking care of our children, grandchildren, parents, or all of the above, women usually take on the responsibility. To this end many women may be forced to leave their jobs, or go part-time. This means lowering of 401K contributions, lost health, and retirement benefits. Unfortunately, many families seem to be dealing with these issues more and more. There is even a name society has given our generation-the sandwich generation. Smushed between our younger and older family members we are forced to care for both groups. This situation takes a psychological and emotional toll on all family members, especially women.
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